Success is not obtained overnight. It comes in installments; you get a little bit today, a little bit tomorrow until the whole package is given out. The day you procrastinate, you lose that day’s success.
No one has the right to judge you because no one really knows what you’ve been through. They may have heard your stories but they didn’t feel what you have felt in your heart.
There’s really no such thing as the ‘voiceless’. There are only the deliberately silenced, or the preferably unheard

You reminded me of the coffee stains on my sheets of paper, and how you artfully circled certain words written on my soul.

Did you think that placing yourself on my soul would not leave a mark on me?

Never be ashamed,’ he said. ‘Accept what life offers you and try to drink from every cup. All wines should be tasted; some should only be sipped, but with others, drink the whole bottle.’
‘How will I know which is which?’
‘By the taste. You can only know a good wine if you have first tasted a bad one.
aplacetolovedogs:

Is this spot taken?

aplacetolovedogs:

Is this spot taken?

These are forms of male aggression that only women see. But even when men are afforded a front seat to harassment, they don’t always have the correct vantage point for recognizing the subtlety of its operation. Four years before the murders, I was sitting in a bar in Washington, D.C. with a male friend. Another young woman was alone at the bar when an older man scooted next to her. He was aggressive, wasted, and sitting too close, but she smiled curtly at his ramblings and laughed softly at his jokes as she patiently downed her drink. ‘Why is she humoring him?’ my friend asked me. ‘You would never do that.’ I was too embarrassed to say: ‘Because he looks scary’ and ‘I do it all the time.’

Women who have experienced this can recognize that placating these men is a rational choice, a form of self-defense to protect against setting off an aggressor. But to male bystanders, it often looks like a warm welcome, and that helps to shift blame in the public eye from the harasser and onto his target, who’s failed to respond with the type of masculine bravado that men more easily recognize.

If you don’t have a seat at the table, you’re probably on the menu.
Love who you love while you have them. That’s all you can do. Let them go when you must. If you know how to love, you’ll never run out.

chuckgroenink:

We moved into a new place this week and I finally have a decent studio again!

I’m so confused and mesmerized all at the same time.

I’m so confused and mesmerized all at the same time.

(Source: sailor-elune)

allthosebandsarekillingme:

what do you mean you don’t like dogs/cats???